Amaha / / / Why Are You Always Tired and Have No Energy? Understanding Constant Fatigue
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2nd Jun 2025
Most people have experienced that familiar dragging and groggy sensation — heavy body, foggy mind, and the overwhelming desire to crawl back into bed despite sleeping through the night. For some, this tiredness is more than just an occasional inconvenience.
Picture Deepa from Delhi, who wakes up each morning feeling as though she hasn't slept at all. Or Rahul from Mumbai, who needs three cups of coffee just to function through his morning meetings. These aren't isolated cases — countless Indians struggle with the frustrating question: "Why do I feel tired all the time?"
Depression doesn't always wear the face we expect. While sadness might be its poster child, fatigue often serves as its silent ambassador.
Take the case of Vikrant, a 38-year-old accountant from Pune. His colleagues noticed his increasing tendency to yawn through afternoon meetings and his uncharacteristic lack of enthusiasm for after-work cricket matches. "Everyone assumed he was staying up watching late-night matches or working a side hustle," shares his wife, Nandini. "The truth was much different — he was sleeping nearly ten hours, but waking up exhausted. It took months before a doctor connected his persistent fatigue to depression."
Clinical psychiatrist Dr. Shivam Gupta explains, “For someone with depression, the brain is constantly working overtime, like a computer running a heavy program in the background. This drains energy, leaving you feeling worn out—no matter how much you sleep.”
For many Indians, especially men taught to hide their feelings, fatigue becomes the ‘acceptable’ face of depression. It’s easier to say “I’m tired” than to admit to feeling hopeless.
Anyone who's experienced anxiety knows its paradoxical nature —you feel both wired and wiped out at the same time.
Consider Preethi, a 34-year-old schoolteacher from Chennai. She arrived at work each day thoroughly prepared yet perpetually exhausted. "My husband couldn't understand why I was so tired when my job ended at 4 PM," she recalls. "He couldn't see that my mind never stopped working — constantly rehearsing conversations, replaying minor interactions, worrying about future scenarios. By bedtime, my body was ready for sleep, but my mind kept sprinting."
Dr. Divya from Amaha compares this to leaving a car engine running in neutral: “Anxiety keeps your stress response switched on, burning through your energy without getting you anywhere. Over time, those stress hormones leave you feeling completely drained.”
In India’s close-knit, family-oriented culture, the pressure to keep everyone happy can make this mental exhaustion even worse.
Burnout isn’t just about long hours—it’s a deep, soul-level exhaustion from relentless stress.
Arjun, a 42-year-old software developer in Bengaluru, saw this firsthand during the pandemic. His home became his office, and soon, there were no boundaries. “Work messages at dinner, client calls during family time, code reviews before bed. His body was home, but his mind was always at work,” his partner recalls. “Eventually, he couldn’t focus, even when he tried.”
Dr. Sharma, an occupational health specialist, says burnout is becoming an epidemic among Indian professionals. “We’re seeing so many young people who feel utterly spent, no matter how much they rest. They talk about feeling ‘empty’ or ‘used up’—and these aren’t just feelings. Burnout actually changes how your brain and body manage energy.”
What’s especially tough about burnout is how it steals your ability to enjoy things or feel accomplished—the very things that could help you recover.
Grief demands enormous energy, yet our culture often underestimates its physical toll.
When Anjali's mother passed away last year, relatives praised her composure during the thirteen-day mourning rituals. "Nobody saw me collapsing into bed each night," she shares. "For months afterwards, I needed afternoon naps just to function. My doctor explained that grief was literally draining my energy, even when I wasn't actively crying." Even though Anjali lived in a vibrant neighbourhood in Bangalore with a happening lifestyle, her environment was not able to cheer her up.
This energy depletion extends beyond mourning people — many experience similar fatigue when processing losses like career setbacks, relationship endings, or health changes.
Certain physical conditions frequently overlap with mental health issues, creating complex fatigue patterns that can be difficult to untangle.
The butterfly-shaped thyroid gland might be small, but its influence on energy and mood proves mighty.
Hypothyroidism affects approximately 11% of Indian adults, with a higher prevalence among women. "The thyroid regulates metabolism in every cell. When it underperforms, everything slows down — including brain function, which affects mood and energy. Interestingly, the symptoms of hypothyroidism and depression overlap significantly, sometimes making diagnosis challenging."
For many patients, addressing thyroid imbalance improves both physical energy and mood, highlighting the artificial nature of separating "mental" from "physical" health.
Despite nutritional awareness campaigns, iron-deficiency anaemia remains staggeringly common in India, affecting over 50% of women and many men as well.
Psychologist Anshul Khosla explains the bidirectional relationship between anaemia and mental well-being: "When haemoglobin levels drop, oxygen delivery to tissues decreases. The brain, which consumes approximately 20% of the body's oxygen despite being only 2% of body weight, becomes especially vulnerable. This oxygen deprivation affects neurotransmitter function, potentially triggering or worsening anxiety and depression, creating a vicious cycle of both physical and mental fatigue."
You might think that living in sunny India means no one would have vitamin D deficiency—but the reality is just the opposite. Despite our tropical climate, up to 90% of Indians have low vitamin D levels, thanks to modern indoor lifestyles, air pollution, and a tendency to avoid direct sunlight.
Dr. Aditya Mahindru, explains, “Vitamin D is more than just a bone nutrient—it acts like a hormone in the brain, affecting mood and energy.” Studies show that vitamin D deficiency is linked to fatigue, depression, and poor sleep, especially among urban professionals who spend most of their days indoors.
In many Indian communities, mental health remains taboo, adding an extra layer of exhaustion for those already struggling.
Neha Gahlot, a psychologist, explains: “Many patients spend energy trying to look ‘normal’—hiding symptoms, making excuses for therapy, pretending to be fine around family. It’s like acting every day, and it’s draining.”
This “stigma tax” is especially heavy in tight-knit families, where reputation matters and older generations may see mental health issues as weakness or spiritual failure.
Men and women both face mental fatigue, but women often carry extra, invisible burdens.
Sunita, a 37-year-old mother and marketing executive from Hyderabad, says, “It’s not just doing things—it’s remembering everything: kids’ exams, in-laws’ medicines, groceries, meal plans, birthdays. My husband helps if I ask, but I’m the central processor for our home.”
During festivals and family events, this mental load grows as women take on most cultural and hospitality duties, leading to seasonal spikes in stress and exhaustion.
Recognition represents the first step toward addressing mentally-induced fatigue. Mental health awareness has grown significantly in urban India. There are diverse therapists available for a range of concerns suitable for your personality type.
Online platforms have made mental health support more accessible and private. Online therapy services offer affordable counselling options that bypass traditional barriers to care. For those concerned about privacy, these platforms provide discreet support without the visibility of visiting a clinic.
India's spiritual traditions offer powerful tools for managing mental fatigue:
The ancient practice of yoga nidra (yogic sleep) provides deep rest that research suggests may be more restorative than conventional sleep for those with anxiety-related fatigue. A systematic review published in the International Journal of Yoga found just 20 minutes of yoga nidra could reduce cortisol levels and subjective fatigue more effectively than napping for the same duration.
For those with depression-related fatigue, certain pranayama techniques show promise in regulating the nervous system. Particularly, "brahmari" (humming bee breath) has demonstrated effects on parasympathetic activation, potentially countering the energy-depleting effects of chronic stress.
Digital boundaries prove increasingly essential for managing mental energy. Therapist Riyyan Farooq recommends simple but effective strategies: "Designate technology-free zones in your home. Create clear work-home transitions even when working remotely. Use 'do not disturb' settings outside working hours. These small boundaries preserve mental energy depleted by constant connectivity."
Some companies have begun recognizing the productivity benefits of protecting employees' mental energy. Tech firm Zoho, headquartered in Chennai, implemented "tranquility hours" — periods when internal communications are discouraged to allow uninterrupted focus time.
The most effective approach to unexplained fatigue acknowledges the artificial nature of separating mental and physical health. Integrative medicine physician Dr. Verma suggests these steps:
Evidence shows that cognitive behavioural therapy and other psychological interventions can help address underlying mental health causes of constant fatigue, improving coping skills, reducing emotional distress, and enhancing both mental and physical energy levels.
For anyone wondering why they feel tired and fatigued all the time despite adequate sleep, considering mental health factors may provide the missing puzzle pieces. In a culture that often prioritises physical health while neglecting psychological well-being, recognising the mental dimensions of fatigue represents a crucial step toward genuine restoration.
Persistent fatigue deserves attention and compassion rather than dismissal as laziness or weakness. It might be the body's way of signalling that mental health needs nurturing, and addressing these deeper causes could finally break the exhausting cycle of perpetual tiredness.
After all, true energy comes not just from physical rest but from emotional and mental renewal as well. By attending to the whole person — mind, body, and spirit — those struggling with chronic fatigue may finally rediscover the vitality that makes life not just manageable but genuinely enjoyable.
Mentally-induced exhaustion often persists despite adequate rest and typically accompanies other symptoms like difficulty concentrating, feeling overwhelmed by routine tasks, or experiencing mood changes. Unlike physical tiredness, which generally improves with rest, mental fatigue may paradoxically worsen during periods of inactivity when the mind has more opportunity to ruminate. Another telling sign: mentally-induced fatigue often fluctuates based on emotional context or environment rather than physical exertion levels. If changing thought patterns (through meditation, therapy, or engaging activities) temporarily improves energy, mental factors likely play a significant role.
Research indicates several dietary approaches may help address mentally-induced fatigue. Foods rich in omega-3 fatty acids (like flaxseeds, walnuts, and fatty fish) help reduce inflammation that often accompanies depression and anxiety. Complex carbohydrates stabilize blood sugar while supporting serotonin production, which influences both mood and energy regulation. Fermented foods like yogurt, idli, and dosa contain probiotics that support gut health, increasingly recognized as crucial for mental wellbeing through the gut-brain axis. Additionally, traditional Indian spices like turmeric contain curcumin, which studies suggest may have antidepressant effects and reduce mental fatigue in some individuals.
This common phenomenon, sometimes called "weekend fatigue," often has psychological roots. During workweeks, stress hormones like cortisol and adrenaline keep energy artificially elevated despite underlying exhaustion. When these stress hormones naturally decrease during relaxation periods, the body finally registers accumulated fatigue. Additionally, disrupting regular sleep-wake cycles on weekends can confuse the body's circadian rhythm. For those with anxiety or depression, unstructured time may increase rumination or worry, depleting mental energy. Finally, many people unconsciously postpone processing emotional stress until "safe" periods like weekends, when the psychological load finally registers physically as fatigue.
Social media consumption contributes to fatigue through multiple mechanisms. The brain processes emotional content whether experienced directly or virtually, so exposure to others' distressing news, achievements, or conflicts consumes emotional energy. The constant task-switching between different posts, videos, and notifications fragments attention and depletes cognitive resources more rapidly than sustained focus. Blue light from screens disrupts melatonin production, potentially compromising sleep quality. Perhaps most significantly, social comparison on platforms often triggers anxiety, inadequacy, or FOMO (fear of missing out), all of which drain mental energy through stress hormone activation and emotional processing demands.
Research indicates burnout is reversible, though recovery typically requires more than just rest. Complete burnout recovery generally demands addressing root causes, which may include unsustainable workloads, values misalignment, lack of control, insufficient rewards (material or psychological), breakdown of community, or perceived unfairness. Recovery time varies significantly depending on burnout severity and intervention comprehensiveness. Mild burnout might improve within weeks with appropriate boundaries and stress management, while severe cases may require months or longer, possibly including professional support, significant lifestyle changes, or career adjustments. Most importantly, sustainable recovery requires systemic changes rather than simply taking time off before returning to identical circumstances.